What is irreconcilable between us is that you hold the view that homosexual behaviour is not sin, whereas Scripture and the Catholic Church teach that it is. I, as one who is alive today only because of the clarity and certainty of this teaching, agree with it. My life depends on it.
The only love that has life giving meaning is the love that is expressed as God intends it, and we know how he intends it to be expressed through his Word, and Catholic moral teaching.